After talking with many Mom’s, especially the Mom’s with small children, I often hear about the battle. You know, the HAIR BATTLE, between your busy, impatient toddler and hair time. I honestly didn’t have a struggle with N’s hair when she was smaller. But I did battle with my son. I put together 7 tips to help you win!
1.) Start the daily hair care while they are young. This is very important! Just like brushing teeth, or getting dressed, hair maintenance should be just as important. This is mandatory, not optional. If you do this everyday, they will gradually get used to hair time and expect it.
2.) Nap time! If your child sleeps hard like a rock, this is the perfect time to grab a comb and begin a style. But I must warn you, it takes a bit of skill to be able to part the hair, and have a good enough angle to see what you are doing.
3.) Watch other kids during hair time. Monkey see, monkey do. I’m not calling your kid a monkey lol. But sometimes, if kids see others being “brave” or a “big girl.” It influences them to want to be good, like the other child. Search and find some Youtube videos of kids getting their hair done. Make sure to point out how still and well-behaved they are being, when they are getting their hair done. This may help your child learn how to copy and behave.
4.) Treats!! Now this doesn’t mean “junk food” but give your child some type of treat during hair time. Whether it’s fruit, popsicles, or cereal. Keeping their mouths full, will help stop them from yelling. (It’s kind of hard to do both at the same time lol.)
5.) Tv time! In our house, tv time is a privilege. Homework & chores must be complete in order to watch tv. So when I pop in a movie, or turn to cartoons, this is a good time to grab a comb and start styling. They are so happy that the tv is on, they won’t care that your styling their hair. If your child fusses, the tv comes off! This will help them to understand that, you can have what you want (tv) if I get what I want (hair time.) Also when I braid N’s hair (which sometimes takes approx 1-2 hours) Tv makes the perfect distraction. The movie is over and so is Mommy.
6.) Giving them a job! Sometimes doing things as a team, motivates them to participate during hair time. Kids always want to feel apart of something. So if it’s sorting the hair bows, or holding the brush or etc, this will show them that they are apart of the hair process. Makes them feel important, and they will like this feeling.
7.) Frequent breaks. Make sure to take plenty of breaks while styling their hair. Don’t expect them to sit still for 30 minutes straight while you detangle. Work quickly, and take time to read, sing a silly song, or color, this will make them happy and give your fingers a break.
Guest Blogger Kandy
(Wife and Mom to N&L)
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